DO WE REALLY MOVE ON?
“We can’t deny the fact that they will always influence our future choices in one way or another especially when it comes to subsequent relationships“
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By Cynthia Jebet|Writer|Story teller|Journalist
What if we never forget about them the way we would want to? What if our lives change forever?
We can’t deny the fact that they will always influence our future choices in one way or another especially when it comes to subsequent relationships.
We are all familiar with the feelings that come with parting ways with someone we wanted to spend a lifetime with.
The emotional turmoil experienced can’t be described.We eventually reach a place we can describe as healing but do we really “unlove” them completely?
We have witnessed people who separated for years getting back together no matter how nasty the break up.
This scenerio has me wondering, what is that force that kept them from drifting away for good? Is there something about romantic relationships that we have yet to discover?
In some instances people have continued to have secret affairs with their ex partners.
We can’t deny that sometimes we experience jealousy that comes with finding out your ex is doing good with someone else despite the fact that you yourself already moved on.
Some may argue that it’s the memories they shared that binds them together but according to my understanding you can have better memories with someone else but still have your Ex in mind.
What is that aspect of your previous relationship you can’t let go? That awkward feeling you experience when you find yourself in the same place with someone you dated is unexplainable.
One will be so anxious and uncomfortable the entire time for no reason. Most people prefer to maintain physical distance even if it means relocating to somewhere far as long as they never cross paths.
So, are we forever meant to hold memories of these people?
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